How does one succeed in life?

Does not procrastinate.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Making more friends is a goal.

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Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Is it wrong of me to feel uncomfortable that my friend thinks my brother is hot?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

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Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

How come Jesus died on Friday and rose on Sunday? That's not 3 days and three nights.

Ask yourself:

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

You hold the door open for a lady and she stops in her tracks and screams at you, ‘Don’t hold the door for me! I’ll get it myself!’ What are your feelings or immediate reaction?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

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Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

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Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

When I buy a house, do I automatically own all items the previous owner failed to remove from the property?

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Summer here, the one who debunks atheism. Isn’t it funny how atheists always say they prefer a “no-nonsense, evidence-based approach” to understanding the world, but when I bring up logical arguments for theism, they suddenly clam up?

That's it for today.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

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Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Procrastinates a lot.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

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Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Why am I peeing so much without drinking a lot of water? I checked my blood sugar and it is normal. Could it be something else?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Is it okay if I am not interested to talk to any of my relatives as I saw the real faces in my brother's marriage as none of them helped us rather were a kind of disappointment and were talking bad?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Hangs out with loser friends.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

I want to touch my sister’s boobs. What do I say?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

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Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.